Every relationship requires the ingredient of love shown in various degrees.
In the quest to be able to establish a strong and loving relationship both parties should be able to learn all the various ways and actions that clearly get the message of love and concern across.
The following are some of the very basic ways to clearly get the message of love across to the other party through actions:
The simplest form of trying to show affection and love without coming on too strong would be the physical contact made whenever both parties are in each other’s company. This could be as simple as holding hands or as protective and intimate as a kiss. A casual arm on the shoulder of the other party while walking or even sitting is also another non-invasive way of expressing love.
Snuggling up together when relaxing is also a good way to show love and affection towards each other. This is especially welcomed when both parties are not otherwise distracted or occupied. Some couples take this a step further by whispering loving, complimenting or other positive words into each other’s ears.
This action is certainly one that depicts intimacy and love. Mentioning how much they are missed when apart is also something most loving couple would express.
Doing things for each other without actually being asked to do so is a great way to show love. The other party would certainly feel loved and appreciated when such actions are extended to them without any prompting. This will give them a sense of value and certainly help them see the loving action as a sign of commitment and care.
Presenting each other with gifts that don’t signify any particular occasion except to show love and affection would certainly be a good attention grabbing action. These gifts need not be expensive but simply thoughtful and sincere.
Be Careful Of Actions And Behaviors
Actions and behavioral patterns expressed within a relationship, definitely dictate in some way the kind of feelings evident from both parties, and this is usually a good indication of the strength of love and commitment. Being careful in how these actions are played out and interpreted is important if the individual is keen on keeping the relationship alive and strong.
There are several documented materials compiled that clearly show the actual level these actions and behaviors shown can affect the relationship, therefore a lot of thought should ideally go into any such displays before they are actually acted out.
Both parties should take the trouble to ensure all actions and behaviors are carefully expressed as once these actions or behaviors are exercised, the negative impact that it can depict will almost always be hard to justify or erase.
In some more severe cases, such actions and behaviors may even cause destruction within the relationship and the eventual ending of the said relationship.
This is especially true when such displays are done in a very public manner for the others to witness. The embarrassment felt, would in all probability not be justifiable enough for the receiving party to forgive or forget.
Women are much more sensitive to actions and behaviors that depict them in a poor light, thus making such displays almost unacceptable for them.
Being able to behave well and show some level of maturity and consideration is usually what most people would want extended to them, and in doing so all parties will be able to comfortable respect each other’s boundaries of tolerance.
Men too don’t respond well to being publically corrected or talked “down” to, thus their partners should learn the vital lesson of keeping such actions and behaviors to the confines of their own private space.